When it comes to matters of the heart, “Pinoy Big Brother Gen 11” ex-housemates Dingdong Bahan and Patrick Ramirez have found their unique ways to show love, handle conflicts, and keep the spark alive. Through simple yet meaningful gestures, they have created a loving foundation built on trust, understanding and a whole lot of laughter. 

Saying “sorry” is easier said than done, but Dingdong and Patrick have found a rhythm that works for them. Dingdong shared that he apologizes through actions—whether it’s a soft kiss or a warm cuddle, he lets his love speak in physical gestures. Patrick, on the other hand, likes to whisper his apology in a small, soft voice. 

In the age of grand gestures and Instagram-worthy surprises, Dingdong’s approach to special occasions is refreshingly simple: make it unexpected, genuine, and straight from the heart. It doesn’t have to be a material thing.  He thought behind the surprise is what truly matters. Patrick agrees, adding that as long as there’s effort, the surprise will always be meaningful.

Trust is the backbone of any relationship, and for Dingdong and Patrick, it’s all about giving each other the freedom to grow individually. Patrick believes in letting Dingdong pursue his passions and evolve within the relationship. Dingdong’s perspective is similar—he trusts Patrick to be himself and encourages him to continue doing what he loves. It’s a partnership that balances independence with togetherness, proving that trust flourishes when both partners feel free.

Not everyone expresses love through gifts. For Dingdong, quality time and physical touch are the truest forms of affection. He believes that no material object can replace the power of shared moments and closeness. Patrick feels the same but leans toward acts of service. For him, love means being there for each other, offering support, and celebrating life’s moments together. Their philosophy shows that love doesn’t need to come wrapped in a box; it’s found in the little things.

And then there’s jealousy. Dingdong laughed when asked about it, initially saying he doesn’t get jealous. But Patrick quickly teased him, insisting otherwise. Dingdong finally admitted that when jealousy strikes, he tends to go quiet. He avoids conflict and prefers to settle things calmly, showing that sometimes, love is about keeping things simple and letting peace take precedence over pride.

Dingdong and Patrick’s love story is a gentle reminder that relationships aren’t about grand gestures or perfection. It’s about growing together, making each other laugh, and finding comfort in each other’s presence. DongPat teaches us that love is often in the simplest of things—and that’s what makes it truly special.

*Photo credit to Dingdong Bahan IG