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ON THIS DAY: Kim Chiu and Xian Lim announce the end of their love story

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Nikka Avegail Sabio

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<p>On December 23, 2023, actress and television host Kim Chiu confirmed her breakup with actor-director Xian Lim, marking the end of one of the industry’s most popular love teams.</p><div> </div><p>The announcement quietly concluded a romance that spanned more than a decade - one that began as a hit teleserye partnership and evolved into a real-life relationship closely followed and celebrated by fans.</p><div><strong></strong></div><div></div><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1766475751216OTD-Dec_23-KimXian (1).png" style="width:960px" class="fr-fic fr-dib" width="960"/></div><div><br/></div><div><strong>From On-Screen Partners to Real-Life Couple</strong></div><p>Kim and Xian first worked together on the 2011 ABS-CBN drama <em>My Binondo Girl,</em> where their on-screen chemistry immediately resonated with viewers. The project laid the foundation for what would become one of the most successful love teams of the 2010s.</p><div> </div><p>Following the show’s success, the pair headlined a string of television series and films, including <em>Ina, Kapatid, Anak; Bakit Hindi Ka Crush Ng Crush Mo?; Bride for Rent; Must Date the Playboy; The Story of Us; Love Thy Woman;</em> and<em> All You Need Is Pag-ibig</em>, among others. As their professional partnership flourished, speculation about a real-life romance intensified</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong><iframe width="585" height="439" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/SGkLcVdnSlk" title="My Binondo Girl - Full Trailer" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div><div> <strong></strong></div><div><strong>Relationship Goes Public</strong></div><p>In 2018, Kim finally confirmed their relationship after years of rumors during an interview with television host Boy Abunda, answering “yes” when asked if she and Xian were already together.</p><div> </div><p>Two months later, Xian echoed the confirmation, revealing that they had been a couple since 2012. He explained that they deliberately chose to keep their relationship private.</p><div> </div><p>&quot;Ayaw naming umamin habang magkatrabaho kami. I don’t want people thinking, e kasi gusto lang nilang i-promote ang team-up nila e. Years later, we’re still together and we’re not promoting anything,&quot; Xian said.</p><div> </div><p>Despite their celebrity status, the couple chose to keep their personal life low-key. They occasionally shared moments on social media that offered fans a glimpse of their bond and mutual appreciation.</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong><iframe width="780" height="439" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/b9xeHE2fB8w" title="Push TV: Kim Chiu, paano nga ba niyaya ni Xian Lim na maging ka-date sa Star Magic Ball?" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><strong></strong></div><div><strong> </strong></div><div><strong>Career Growth and Separate Paths</strong></div><p>As both matured personally and professionally, Kim and Xian gradually explored different career directions. Kim expanded her presence as a television host while continuing to take on acting projects, while Xian shifted his focus toward directing, producing, and creative ventures beyond acting.</p><div> </div><p>The two also temporarily parted ways as a love team when Xian transferred to GMA Network while Kim remained a Kapamilya artist. Despite the network divide, Kim previously shared that their relationship remained strong, with both continuing to support each other’s careers.</p><div> </div><p>Still, their increasing separate public appearances fueled speculation about the status of their relationship in the years leading up to the breakup.</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-0" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/B2ZsGVRA5L-/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A1632730.4000000004%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="881" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-0" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><strong></strong></div><div><br/></div><div><strong> </strong></div><div><strong>Breakup Confirmed</strong></div><p>After months of rumors, Kim confirmed in December 2023 that she and Xian had amicably ended their relationship. In a heartfelt statement, she asked for privacy and kindness, emphasizing that the decision was mutual and made with respect for what they shared over nearly 12 years.</p><div> </div><p>“End of a love story,” Kim wrote. “We shared more than a decade of love, each other’s support system, and many beautiful memories. It was our mutual decision to transition our relationship into what we hope to be a lifelong friendship.”</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-1" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/C1MUXiMra78/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A1%2C%22os%22%3A1632752.7999999989%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="844" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-1" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><strong></strong></div><div><br/></div><div><strong> </strong></div><p>She also thanked Xian, writing: “Xi, thank you for the almost 12 years of beautiful memories together one can never imagine. You will always have a place in my heart. Thank you for showing me what love is.”</p><div> </div><p>“As we close this chapter, I ask for everyone’s kindness and respect. I hope this clears everything as we all move forward with our lives.”</p><div> </div><p>Xian, in turn, shared his own message for Kim: “Dearest Kim, thank you for the long years we have spent loving each other.  The 12 years of my life with you was the best gift I could ever ask for. We have expressed our love for each other to the fullest and knowing that I got to share those moment with you, knowing our hearts beat as one at one point in our lives is truly something I will cherish for life.”</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-2" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/C1MYCAavohH/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A2%2C%22os%22%3A1632771.4000000004%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="857" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-2" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><strong></strong></div><div><br/></div><div><strong> </strong></div><p>The confirmation drew mixed reactions from fans and friends with sadness over the end of an era as well as messages of love and support for both stars as individuals.</p><div> </div><div><strong>New and Brighter Chapters Individually</strong></div><p>Two years after closing their chapter as a couple, Kim Chiu and Xian Lim continue to grow and pursue their goals on separate paths, both personally and professionally.</p><div> </div><p>Kim remains a familiar and celebrated presence on television as an actress, host, and public personality. In recent years, she has worked closely with actor Paulo Avelino, forming a new on-screen partnership that has resonated strongly with audiences through multiple successful projects. Their collaborations have marked a fresh chapter in Kim’s career, showcasing her versatility while earning praise from viewers and industry peers alike. </p><div> </div><div><strong></strong></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-3" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/DSSDAkyD1Or/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A3%2C%22os%22%3A1634487.7999999989%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="857" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-3" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><strong></strong></div><div><br/></div><div><strong> </strong></div><p>Beyond work, Kim has been vocal about healing, self-growth, and prioritizing family and personal well-being, reflections that continue to inspire her fans.</p><div> </div><p>Xian, meanwhile, has shifted toward a more private yet creatively focused phase. He has concentrated on filmmaking, directing, and expanding his skills both on and off camera. In his personal life, Xian has since confirmed that he is now in a relationship with Iris Lee.</p><div> </div><div><strong></strong></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-4" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/DLChWKLpTJ6/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A4%2C%22os%22%3A1634632.7999999989%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="901" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-4" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><strong></strong></div><div><br/></div><p>This year, Xian achieved a personal milestone after earning his commercial pilot license, signaling his long-standing passion for aviation and his willingness to explore pursuits outside show business.</p><div> </div>

<p>Two years ago, Kim Chiu and Xian Lim officially confirmed their split after a nearly 12-year relationship.</p>

Two years ago, Kim Chiu and Xian Lim officially confirmed their split after a nearly 12-year relationship.