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Tippy dos Santos opens up about coping with grief and loss
Tippy dos Santos opens up about coping with grief and loss
Toff C.
Published Dec 04, 2024 01:52 PM PHT
Tippy dos Santos shared details about her journey of coping with grief and loss in her latest YouTube vlog.
Tippy dos Santos shared details about her journey of coping with grief and loss in her latest YouTube vlog.
The singer-turned-lawyer lost her mother, Happy Esquivias-Dos Santos, in December of last year due to a car accident in Korea.
The singer-turned-lawyer lost her mother, Happy Esquivias-Dos Santos, in December of last year due to a car accident in Korea.
Tippy described the pain that she felt after losing her mom as "all consuming 'yung pain, all consuming 'yung loss."
Tippy described the pain that she felt after losing her mom as "all consuming 'yung pain, all consuming 'yung loss."
She went on: "Tapos di ko makita 'yung future. Di ko makita kailan siya magiging okay kasi 'yung sakit niya like bunbunan hanggang paa, so hindi ko ma-reconcile how do I go from this point to a point of being okay."
She went on: "Tapos di ko makita 'yung future. Di ko makita kailan siya magiging okay kasi 'yung sakit niya like bunbunan hanggang paa, so hindi ko ma-reconcile how do I go from this point to a point of being okay."
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Tippy shared that taking things one day at a time helped her slowly cope with her grief. "I guess ang naka-help sa akin was to take things one day at a time. Today was better than yesterday. The pain, the sadness, the loss, buong-buo pa rin pero 'yung pag-handle ko sa kanya I think is better than yesterday."
Tippy shared that taking things one day at a time helped her slowly cope with her grief. "I guess ang naka-help sa akin was to take things one day at a time. Today was better than yesterday. The pain, the sadness, the loss, buong-buo pa rin pero 'yung pag-handle ko sa kanya I think is better than yesterday."
"That's why it helps to just take things one day at at time. Plan today, be present today, and look back at yesterday and think I did a better job today than I did yesterday. I guess that's the most basic advice I can give on how to cope with loss and grief."
"That's why it helps to just take things one day at at time. Plan today, be present today, and look back at yesterday and think I did a better job today than I did yesterday. I guess that's the most basic advice I can give on how to cope with loss and grief."
The singer confessed that she doesn't think she will feel 100 percent okay as she will always miss her mother. "I am not yet 100 percent, and I don't think I will ever be 100 percent because I will always miss my mom and that's also the beauty of it. You know, you're loved so much, and you loved so much and that's why there is grief... But you have to take it one day at a time and be kind to yourself."
The singer confessed that she doesn't think she will feel 100 percent okay as she will always miss her mother. "I am not yet 100 percent, and I don't think I will ever be 100 percent because I will always miss my mom and that's also the beauty of it. You know, you're loved so much, and you loved so much and that's why there is grief... But you have to take it one day at a time and be kind to yourself."
Tippy also took a trip back down memory lane and shared what she admired most about her mom.
Tippy also took a trip back down memory lane and shared what she admired most about her mom.
"My mom is the most supportive person I know not only sa amin ng family namin but to anybody that needed support. That was the greatest thing about my mom. And parang feeling ko na not only was it present for us, but I guess it rubbed on us din na I feel that I am also very supportive to the people that I love," she said.
"My mom is the most supportive person I know not only sa amin ng family namin but to anybody that needed support. That was the greatest thing about my mom. And parang feeling ko na not only was it present for us, but I guess it rubbed on us din na I feel that I am also very supportive to the people that I love," she said.
"With support came presence and my mom was very present and I guess kaya 'yung absence niya sobrang nararamdaman, kasi nga sobrang present niya sa buhay namin, sa buhay ng lahat ng tao."
"With support came presence and my mom was very present and I guess kaya 'yung absence niya sobrang nararamdaman, kasi nga sobrang present niya sa buhay namin, sa buhay ng lahat ng tao."
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